“Marriage Is Scary” Dalam Perspektif Al-Qur’an: Analisis Tematik Terhadap Fenomena Ketakutan Menikah Di Kalangan Generasi Z

Authors

  • Dhila Amelia Rahma Universitas Islam Negeri Raden Mas Said Surakarta, Indonesia

Keywords:

Al-Qur'an, Generation Z, marriage is scary, thematic interpretation

Abstract

The phenomenon "Marriage is Scary" reflects the collective anxiety of Generation Z towards the institution of marriage. This fear is influenced by past trauma, economic uncertainty, patriarchal culture, and the lack of premarital literacy. This research aims to analyze the phenomenon thematically based on the verses of the Qur'an. Using a descriptive qualitative approach and library research methods, the author examines five main verses relevant to the concept of marriage. The study results show that the Qur'an responds to these fears by building a narrative of tranquility (sakinah), love (mawaddah), compassion (rahmah), assurance of sustenance, and equality in relationships. Thus, Qur'anic understanding can serve as a counterbalance to the negative narratives surrounding marriage and offer spiritual-conceptual solutions to the anxieties of the younger generation.

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2025-04-09